"There is nothing good nor bad, but thinking makes it so" -Shakespeare
Often our instinct is to F I X everything.
However, the ability to control things is an illusion.
We do not have control over much...other than ourselves.
Our attitude, actions, judgments, beliefs, and even our thought patterns ARE up to us.
Maintaining your mind mindfully will give you the ability to recognize things (beyond your control) for exactly what they are...no more, no less.